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Wednesday, October 5, 2016

Eight fun games narcissists like to play (and one they can’t play). @ Lucky Otters Haven

#1 Ping-Pong...#2 Gotcha!...#3 Crazy Eights...4 Death by a Thousand Cuts...#5 Twenty-One...#6 The King/Queen Game...#7 Cat and Mouse...#8 Liars Poker

See explanations @  Lucky Otters Haven

The 8 Most Common Narc-Sadistic Conversation Control Tactics @ Relationshipedia

Reverse Projection
Conversations Are Not Conversations, They Are Verbal Competitions
Enablers and Tongue Biters

1. Topic Switcheroo...2. The Blame Game...3. Projection...4. Turning Up the Volume...5. Playing the Victim...6. Gas-lighting...7. Interrupting...8. The Silent-treatment

See explanations @ Relationshipedia

Friday, September 30, 2016

Abuse-Can Be Subtle and Deadly @ Ladywithatruck's Blog

Inducing Disorientation...Incapacitating...Shared Psychosis...Abuse Of Information...Control By Proxy
See explanations & more @ Lady With A Truck's Blog

Sunday, September 25, 2016

Check out Ross Rosenberg's Youtube channel

"Ross has been a psychotherapist since 1988. He is a licensed practitioner who is certified as an addiction counselor and certified sex addiction therapist. Ross is considered an expert in codependency, trauma, sex and love addiction and Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders.   Ross is the author of the best-selling and award-winning book, "The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us." In this book, he has drawn on his 26 years of experience in the mental health, social service and child welfare fields. "
Check out Ross Rosenberg's Youtube channel

How to Defend Yourself from Narcissists. Observe Don't Absorb Technique. Stop the Manipulation! uploaded by Ross Rosenburg


Malignant Narcissist Are Dangerous! Loving the Destroyer. Narcissism uploaded by Ross Rosenberg


The Three Phases of A Narcissistic Relationship...@Through the Looking Glass

"A Narcissist is very careful when choosing a target. Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status. They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area. The greater the status, the higher the value the Narcissist places on the Supply derived.

Once a target has been chosen, it’s almost like the Narcissist gets tunnel vision. They are hyper-vigilant in their pursuit and will project the perfect image that their victim wants them to be. They are excessively caring, loving and attentive at this stage. They shower their targets with attention, compliments and literally sweep them off their feet."

See more @ Through the Looking Glass

Dear Empaths: 4 Types of Narcissists You May Be Attracting @ LonerWolf

Vulnerable Narcissists
Invulnerable Narcissists.
Amorous Narcissists
Compensatory Narcissists
Elitist narcissists
malignant narcissists
See explanations & more @ Loner Wolf

Friday, September 23, 2016

Check out Angie Atkinson's Youtube channel

"Discover, Understand and Overcome Narcissistic Abuse with Certified Life Coach, author and survivor Angela Atkinson, a recognized expert in narcissism in relationships and narcissistic personality disorder. As creator of the DUO Method of Healing, it's her mission to to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation and move forward into their genuine desires - into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves. In her life coaching practice, Atkinson's clients enjoy her personalized approach that allows and encourages them to become the best possible versions of themselves and to succeed in doing what they love most. As you can see when you visit the freebies page at QueenBeeing.com, Atkinson's online daily magazine, she's all about paying it forward. New videos every day."

Check out Angie Atkinson's Youtube channel

More Info..
  1. Queen Beeing - Her official site
  2. @FB
  3. @Twitter

10 Steps to Become Immune to Narcissistic Hoovering uploaded by Angie Atkinson


Hoovering: How You Get Tricked Back Into the Narcissistic Vortex! uploaded by Kim Saeed


The One Question You Need To Determine If A Narcissist Is A Narcissist uploaded Richard Grannon Spartan Life Coach


Subtle Ignoring - How to spot a Narcissist 101 uploaded by begood4000


Skaismith Living Narcissist Free's Youtube channel

Check out Skaismith Living Narcissist Free's Youtube channel

How the Narcissist Wants You to KEEP SWEET! uploaded by Skaismith Living Narcissist Free

See her video @ youtube

(9) Why does the narcissist play the victim? Quora

So much information. Narcissists do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to gain attention and admiration.

See the thread @ Quora

Narcissistic Behaviours & Common Expressions by Melanie Tonia Evans

See article @ her site

When Narcissists Claim to be Victims of Narcissists – Who is the Narcissist? @ An Upturned Soul

"For those of you who don’t think that Narcissists ever ‘Play the Victim’… I guess you’ve never met one who does… but when they do, they do it better than real victims, because they play to an audience, and every word and action they use is designed to elicit the sympathy and loyalty of the audience. The audience has been enlisted as heroes to save the Narcissist in distress....They are not monsters, they just seem that way… don’t fight them as though they are monsters, it feeds their ego and fantasy. The mythological, supernatural, fairytale world is their territory… the human world is our territory, they are afraid of our world. It’s too ordinary, flawed, imperfect, and real for them. On our ground… they shrink in size and become nothing more than a scared, miserable and distorted child who has never had the courage or the ability to grow up."

See more @ An Upturned Soul

Narcissistic Abuse: Recognizing Double Bind Coercion @ Echo Recovery

"The Ultimatum Double Bind
A dilemma requiring a decision between one thing and another thing, but choosing either one of them will bring a consequence you do not want to experience.
Then, if you comment or confront the person bringing you this dilemma, that will bring you a consequence you do not want.
All three responses will bring you consequences you do not want.
So you decide you are not going to participate in this, but making no decision at all will also bring you a consequence.
Trapped on all sides
No winning
You are in a catch-22"

See more @ Echo Recovery