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"Ross has been a psychotherapist since 1988. He is a licensed practitioner who is certified as an addiction counselor and certified sex addiction therapist. Ross is considered an expert in codependency, trauma, sex and love addiction and Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders.   Ross is the author of the best-selling and award-winning book, "The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us." In this book, he has drawn on his 26 years of experience in the mental health, social service and child welfare fields. "
Check out Ross Rosenberg's Youtube channel