Narcissistic rage: Stealth Abuse @ Married 2 Narcissist

I. Overt Abuse

The open and explicit abuse of another person. Threatening, coercing, beating, lying, berating, demeaning, chastising, insulting, humiliating, exploiting, ignoring ("silent treatment"), devaluing, unceremoniously discarding, verbal abuse, physical abuse and sexual abuse are all forms of overt abuse.
II. Covert or Controlling Abuse
A. Disproportional Reactions
B Dehumanization and Objectification (Abuse)
C. Abuse of Information
D. Impossible Situations
III. Control and Abuse by Proxy
IV. Ambient Abuse

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