Is Your Narcissist the "Vulnerable" or "Grandiose" Type? by Randi Kreger and attorney/therapist Bill Eddy @ BPD Central

Vulnerable:
"As adults, VNs care about how their partners see them and try to get respect. But ironically, they get defensive at suggestions that they change. They may have hidden affairs, yet accuse the other partner of being unfaithful and obsess about preventing that from happening."

Grandiose
"Grandiose narcissists are less sensitive and more confident. They know they are superior and will seek revenge or go into a vicious rage against those who don't treat them with respect or dare to give them negative feedback"

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