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Sunday, September 6, 2015

What is a sycophat?

Defined as
"behaving or done in an obsequious way in order to gain advantage."

"Sycophants are self-serving servile flatterers and are often slavishly submissive to the narcissist.  The narcissist and the sycophant need each other. The narcissist is completely dependent on the sycophant to feed his ego, to feel important and powerful.  The sycophant, on the other hand, is also dependent on the narcissist for the narcissist makes the sycophant feel included and connected to someone the sycophant believes is powerful and important and will elevate the sycophant to great success, recognition or social standing. The sycophant derives a lot of self worth from the narcissist as the relationship with the narcissist gives the sycophant social standing he otherwise would not have. In short, the relationship between the narcissist and sycophant is symbiotic; each feeding and dependent on the other. Without sycophants, the narcissist struggles, becomes depressed and feels his or her life has no meaning. A narcissist must have blind allegiance and the adoration of sycophantic followers because that is the food of the narcissist. Most often, a narcissist surrounds him or herself with “yes men” (slavishly submissive flatterers) who the narcissist sees as no threat to him or herself but yet, who are also not much good for advancing the narcissist’s vision. But that is ok with the narcissist, because he or she has all the answers, knows what is best and right and doesn’t listen to others anyway. The “yes men” are the means to an end, they help the narcissist get what he or she wants and will only be kept close as long as they serve a purpose."

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More Info...

  1. Beware the sycophant @ Nancy Knowlton
  2. Psychopaths & sycophants by Max McKeown
  3. The Sycophantic Culture by Henry Pelifian 
  4. SYCOPHANT: a self-seeking, servile flatterer  By Jed @ The Penultimate Word
  5. How To Handle Sycophants - What They Don't Teach You At Business School By Dr Neil Flanagan

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